Author · Publisher · Zen Practitioner

Words that find you
where you are.

Fables, parenting wisdom, and folktales — written where story meets the examined life.

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"Even when you can't save your marriage, Paul Mandelstein shows ways you can save your family and your self-esteem." — John Gray, PhD  ·  Author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

A life's work in print.

Wisdom & Inner Life
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Small Wisdoms cover
2026

Small Wisdoms

128 original fables for life's journey — across eight stages from awakening to transformation. Open anywhere. Read slowly. Return often.

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2025

The Hip Pocket Guide to Peaceful Activism

Principles and practices for peace in our time — a compact, powerful guide to purposeful nonviolent action.

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Fatherhood & Family
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2021

The World's Best Dad During and After Divorce

A compassionate roadmap for divorced fathers — staying deeply connected to your children and building a co-parenting relationship defined by presence and peace.

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2006

Being a Great Divorced Father

Real-life advice from a dad who's been there — a frank, warm, practical guide to staying fully present in your children's lives after divorce.

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2006 · Benjamin Franklin Award Finalist

Always Dad

Being a Great Father During & After Divorce — a compassionate guide to remaining an integral part of your children's lives while navigating the challenges of separation.

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Folktales & New Mythology
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2004

Queen Emmali and the Enchanted Lute

A folktale of courage, creativity, and the transformative power of music — written for children of all ages.

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1994

The Nightingale and the Wind

An illustrated new mythology folktale of freedom, voice, and the power of song — centered on gender equality and empowerment.

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Small Wisdoms cover
2026

Small Wisdoms

128 original fables for life's journey — across eight stages from awakening to transformation. Open anywhere. Read slowly. Return often.

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2024

Santa's Surprising Adventure

A heartwarming rhyming story where Santa discovers a radiant home and a baby whose love shines brighter than any star.

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From the Archive
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1976 · The Original "Dummy's Guide"

The Big Dummy's Guide to C.B. Radio

The book that launched a genre. Paul's 1976 classic sold millions of copies and gave rise to the For Dummies format that transformed popular publishing.

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A life at the threshold.

Paul Mandelstein
  • Originator of the For Dummies book format
  • Founder, Quantum Publishing — personal telecommunications technologies (acquired by John Wiley & Sons)
  • Co-founder, The Book Publishing Company — pioneering publisher of vegan cooking, natural home birth, and intentional community living
  • Publisher, Liminal Arts · Bend, Oregon
  • Ordained Soto Zen lay practitioner, lineage of Shunryu Suzuki
  • Over sixty years of contemplative practice
  • Workshop facilitator, Esalen Institute
  • Co-founder, The Farm intentional community
  • Founder, Father Resource Network (father.com)

Paul Mandelstein has spent his life at the edge of things — where publishing meets wisdom, where fatherhood meets spiritual practice, where story meets the examined life. He is an author, publisher, teacher, and Zen practitioner who has been asking the deep questions for more than six decades.

As co-founder of The Book Publishing Company, Paul was a pioneering publisher of the natural living movement in the early 1970s — producing some of the first books on vegan cooking, natural home birth, and intentional community living, and originating the For Dummies format with the Big Dummy's Guide to C.B. Radio. As founder of Quantum Publishing, he focused on personal telecommunications technologies until its acquisition by John Wiley & Sons. As founder of the Father Resource Network and author of three books on divorced fatherhood, he has helped families heal. And through Small Wisdoms — a lifetime's distillation into 128 fables — he offers something rarer: a book that reads you back.

Paul is also the creator of a body of new mythology folktales — illustrated stories that reimagine ancient archetypal wisdom experiences for a modern audience, offering sacred narrative outside the boundaries of traditional religion. The Nightingale and the Wind, Queen Emmali and the Enchanted Lute, and Santa's Surprising Adventure are the first works in this ongoing project.

He lives in Bend, Oregon, where he runs Liminal Arts, his independent imprint. He is a devoted father of four, grandfather of four, and a student of life in the fullest sense.

Teachings for the inner journey.

Paul brings decades of lived wisdom to every room he enters — as a storyteller, a Zen practitioner, and a man who has walked the terrain he teaches. Available for retreats, conferences, and community gatherings.

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Fables & the Examined Life

Drawing on Small Wisdoms, Paul leads intimate workshops exploring story as a vehicle for self-knowledge — for retreat centers, spiritual communities, and literary gatherings.

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Conscious Fatherhood

From fatherhood to cooperative co-parenting, Paul speaks to parents navigating family transitions with presence, honesty, and care.

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Peaceful Activism

Grounded in decades of community organizing and contemplative practice, Paul offers workshops on purposeful action and nonviolent social change.

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The Art of Publishing

With a career that helped shape modern popular publishing, Paul speaks to writers and publishers about the evolving bond between authors, ideas, and readers.

Every good thing
begins with a
conversation.

For speaking engagements, workshop bookings, media inquiries, or simply to say hello — Paul reads every message.

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